My name is Nguwasen Or but I have pretty much been known as Mimi for most of my life. I am the second of four children born in the middle Belt region of Nigeria in 1984. When I was 18 months old, my sister, then my only sibling and my mother went to join my father in the UK. It was only meant to be a six month visit but we ended up staying forever. Like most people, a lot of good and bad things have happened in my life and sometimes the bad times seem to outweigh the good times. I’m starting to wonder if that’s the way its supposed to be.